Post by countof3 on Feb 1, 2012 15:58:16 GMT -5
I'm sitting here only ... wow almost 7 months into this. For the first time in my life food isn't a compulsion.
Like I dont' think about it 24/7. It doesn't haunt me, I don't analyze it constantly. I eat 95% on plan, I don't graze and have the occasional off plan item.
For the first time sweets don't call my name. I get stressed and I verbalize or clean my house LOL. Thankfully the verbalizing changed from barking at people to talking with friends.
But seriously, if I didn't follow a meal plan (like pack my lunch, eat at a certain time, etc) I think I'd probably not eat....
At any rate this has me thinking. If it was all emotional - where'd it go? I mean yes I've been in counseling working on this for a ocuple of years but before surgery, it was still something I fought. And I suspect it will return in some form, in some level.
But if emotion was 100% of it, wouldn't it still be an issue for me? Because hunger did not fuel my sweet tooth, that I can assure you. I still like sweets but they don't go down well at all and one bite at a time I'm eliminating things I used to like. So far I could go my whole rest of my life without ice cream, cookies, brownies, cake, pie and chocolate......
So it's making me think there has got to be a biological component. First, I learned to eat a "balanced meal" as a kid of the 70's (meat, starch, veggie) and despite having that beat into my head most of my life, I unlearned the starches overnight. So I don't think it's learned either.
I think emotions fuel it, but I think that article talking about the bodies attack on us to get back to fat - bears a lot more thinking than in passing. I think they ought to really dig that out. If they could find a way to turn off that switch, I think we'd have something.
It got me thinking because as I'm sitting in a meeting with a box of sees candies under my nose I barely gave it a thought. At the end of the 2 hour meeting (snore) I realized it hadn't even crossed my mind once. In the past, I wouldn't have even been able to listen to the meeting!!!
I do take a bite here and there of special treats but it just doesn't float my boat anymore and generally a couple of bites actually makes me feel a bit nauseous so most times I find for instance I ate one bite of apple pie about 4 months back - I couldn't care less if I ever ate it again. Let me tell you apple pie was my hands down favorite food of all time... I have zero desire for things like cookies, cake or brownies. Something about those and bread give me this internal reaction of like "blech".
So again back on point because yeah I have ADD... LOL ... if this were entirely emotional, there would be something going on here. As for stress, yes, I have a life that will be forever plagued with stress. I just got threatened with jail by my ex because my 15 year old refuses to see is alcoholic abusive dad.... and I didn't eat. I sat, talked through it with my mom and a friend and decided to just let it go.
And I do not look forward to that component returning in my life. That is where the rubber is going to meet the road and I'll have to further change my lifestyle to probably 99% on plan. I'm ready for it, I'll handle it, I no longer allow myself the all or nothing thinking. If it's not causing an issue currently, I'm simply going with a severe overhaul in my diet (which has already occurred even before surgery), and I consider the change from 95 to 99% minor adjustment.
Anyone else completely lose the whole "food on the brain 24/7" thing after surgery?
Like I dont' think about it 24/7. It doesn't haunt me, I don't analyze it constantly. I eat 95% on plan, I don't graze and have the occasional off plan item.
For the first time sweets don't call my name. I get stressed and I verbalize or clean my house LOL. Thankfully the verbalizing changed from barking at people to talking with friends.
But seriously, if I didn't follow a meal plan (like pack my lunch, eat at a certain time, etc) I think I'd probably not eat....
At any rate this has me thinking. If it was all emotional - where'd it go? I mean yes I've been in counseling working on this for a ocuple of years but before surgery, it was still something I fought. And I suspect it will return in some form, in some level.
But if emotion was 100% of it, wouldn't it still be an issue for me? Because hunger did not fuel my sweet tooth, that I can assure you. I still like sweets but they don't go down well at all and one bite at a time I'm eliminating things I used to like. So far I could go my whole rest of my life without ice cream, cookies, brownies, cake, pie and chocolate......
So it's making me think there has got to be a biological component. First, I learned to eat a "balanced meal" as a kid of the 70's (meat, starch, veggie) and despite having that beat into my head most of my life, I unlearned the starches overnight. So I don't think it's learned either.
I think emotions fuel it, but I think that article talking about the bodies attack on us to get back to fat - bears a lot more thinking than in passing. I think they ought to really dig that out. If they could find a way to turn off that switch, I think we'd have something.
It got me thinking because as I'm sitting in a meeting with a box of sees candies under my nose I barely gave it a thought. At the end of the 2 hour meeting (snore) I realized it hadn't even crossed my mind once. In the past, I wouldn't have even been able to listen to the meeting!!!
I do take a bite here and there of special treats but it just doesn't float my boat anymore and generally a couple of bites actually makes me feel a bit nauseous so most times I find for instance I ate one bite of apple pie about 4 months back - I couldn't care less if I ever ate it again. Let me tell you apple pie was my hands down favorite food of all time... I have zero desire for things like cookies, cake or brownies. Something about those and bread give me this internal reaction of like "blech".
So again back on point because yeah I have ADD... LOL ... if this were entirely emotional, there would be something going on here. As for stress, yes, I have a life that will be forever plagued with stress. I just got threatened with jail by my ex because my 15 year old refuses to see is alcoholic abusive dad.... and I didn't eat. I sat, talked through it with my mom and a friend and decided to just let it go.
And I do not look forward to that component returning in my life. That is where the rubber is going to meet the road and I'll have to further change my lifestyle to probably 99% on plan. I'm ready for it, I'll handle it, I no longer allow myself the all or nothing thinking. If it's not causing an issue currently, I'm simply going with a severe overhaul in my diet (which has already occurred even before surgery), and I consider the change from 95 to 99% minor adjustment.
Anyone else completely lose the whole "food on the brain 24/7" thing after surgery?